A Nigerian man has shared his feelings of distress and heartache after his girlfriend decided to end their relationship due to his hesitancy in proposing marriage, despite their enduring companionship that spanned over 8 years.
The man, whose identity remains undisclosed, disclosed that his partner, who has now reached the age of 30, gradually stopped visiting his residence and withdrew from certain responsibilities she had previously taken on. Her reason for this was her dissatisfaction with his seeming reluctance to fully commit to the idea of marriage.
Described as an individual devoted to his pursuits and aspirations, the man conveyed his predicament by explaining that his current financial circumstances did not align with the significant financial commitment that marriage demands.
He underscored his unwavering determination to achieve a substantial financial breakthrough before embarking on the journey of marital life. His desire is to establish a robust foundation upon which to build a family and ensure their future stability.
In his own words:
"I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a duration of 8 years. However, in recent times, she has refrained from visiting my residence, citing her belief that I am enjoying the privileges of a married life without the formal commitment.
She is currently 30 years old, while I am still dedicated to my pursuits as I work towards a significant achievement that will enable me to responsibly embrace the responsibilities of marriage and family. I am committed to achieving a certain level of financial success before taking the plunge into marital bliss. It is my aspiration to provide a solid and secure platform for our shared journey ahead.[/b]"