A young Nigerian man has taken to social media in distress, pouring out his emotions as he admits that his conscience is deeply troubled after making a major life decision. According to him, he recently went ahead to propose to a lady whom he had been involved with in the past under questionable circumstances, and ever since then, his heart has not been at rest.
The man explained that his relationship with this lady started on a foundation of infidelity, as he was at the time in a committed relationship with his girlfriend, while the lady in question was also dating her boyfriend. Despite the fact that both of them were being unfaithful to their partners, their secret relationship continued for a while. Over time, the bond grew stronger, and eventually, he decided to take things further by asking for her hand in marriage.
However, after making this bold move, the man revealed that he has been unable to find peace of mind. He confessed that the thought of how their relationship began keeps haunting him, and he is worried that this shaky foundation could affect the future of his marriage. Sharing his dilemma anonymously on the social media platform X (formerly Twitter) through user @Wizarab10, he admitted that he is now seeking advice from others on whether or not he has made the right decision.
In his own words, he wrote: “My mind is troubled. I met a girl through cheating on my girlfriend, while she was also doing the same with her boyfriend with me. I proposed to marry her yesterday, but my mind is not at rest. Please advise me.”
Following his confession, the post quickly gained attention online, drawing numerous reactions from social media users who shared their diverse thoughts and advice. While some sympathized with his situation, others strongly criticized him for making such a choice, reminding him that relationships built on betrayal often come with lingering trust issues.
See some reactions below:
@CallmeBigray_: “Since you’re both a cheat, whenever it comes across your mind to cheat, remember she’ll probably be having the same thought or might have already done it. Enjoy your marriage bro.”
@Masterpiece5ive: “Nothing will happen to you, brother. She won’t cheat on you honestly, just that you’ll need to save money for DNA tests. The nurses might mistakenly change the baby after childbirth which is not her fault. Best of luck?”
@itz_taser: “If you have been following Wizarab for a while, you won’t be sending this kind of message. But I wish you well, I’m sure she’ll change since she chose you over her boyfriend.”
@PulseOfTayo: “What does 2 cheaters equal to? Una marriage go be open relationship free for all.”
@Mr_DaveChigozie: “Enjoy your marriage, unah fit each other indeed, but you will never be at peace in this marriage.”
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