A 27-year-old man hailing from Kwara state has turned to the online community for advice on overcoming his shyness, particularly in approaching women. The anonymous appeal, shared by Facebook influencer Innocent Tino, highlights the man's struggle to initiate conversations with women, hindering his ability to form connections and secure a girlfriend.
Expressing his concern, the young man stated, "I am 27 years old from Kwara state. My major problem is that I don’t know how to approach a lady up till now. I don’t have a single girlfriend. I don’t even know how to approach them. I am too shy to talk to a lady. Pls, what can I do to eliminate the shyness?"
This heartfelt plea has garnered various responses from netizens, with many offering suggestions and advice to help the young man overcome his shyness and enhance his social interactions.
Netizens Reactions...
Emmanuel Oribhabor advised, "Approach 2 girls every day; by the end of 30 days, you have already approached 60 girls. By doing this consistently, you gain mastery of it over time. No matter what you read or are told to do, no one will beat this advice. If you don’t practice it, you won’t master it. We learn to do by doing. Rinse and repeat this advice and thank me later."
Aubrey Obi E K offered to be a coach, stating, "Just in a week, the shyness would disappear."
Chris Armstrong expressed, "You don’t know what the lord has done for you. You would pay heavily once you know how to talk to them."
Deyoungski Monday humorously suggested, "Send her money. Send her more money. Send her money. Keep sending her more money. Come back still send her money."
Ihechi Light recommended trying dating apps, saying, "Try dating apps, that can also help, all these girls out there dying of loneliness but will even act like they’re married when you make a pass at them. They’re all in dating apps, my guy; go there and possess your possession."
Too Arsenal Kutv shared his own experience, saying, "Was in these shoes some years ago. But now I’m a professional."
Fra NK Lin humorously added, "Like me, I find it difficult too, only if I meet you on social media or I manage to take black bullet I fit talk to you to my taste."
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