A young lady has sparked massive reactions online after sharing what she boldly described as the easiest and most effective way for men to confirm if their girlfriend is cheating.
In a trending video making waves across several social media platforms, she explained that many men waste too much time and energy combing through WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, or other messaging apps in search of evidence of infidelity from male contacts.
She emphasized that most women are far more careful and would hardly leave behind incriminating messages with men on their phones, since they know those are the first places boyfriends usually check when suspicion arises.
Instead, she pointed out a surprising but practical alternative: the real secret to uncovering the truth lies in checking conversations with female friends. According to her, women often pour out their secrets, gist, and details about flings or hidden relationships to their girlfriends. Even when they delete or hide evidence from male contacts, they rarely erase the candid chats they’ve had with their female confidants.
She further noted that women trust their girlfriends to keep such secrets, so they freely share everything from meeting locations, pictures, and even stories about what the other man is doing for them. This, she claimed, makes the girlfriends’ chats the best place for men to look if they truly want to know the reality of what’s happening in their relationship.
Her direct advice to men was clear and straightforward: stop wasting time focusing on chats with male friends, because most women are too smart to leave traces there. Instead, go through the conversations with her closest female friends if you really want to know if she is faithful or not.
Reactions to the video
Kheeng Promise shared his personal experience: “Na so I take catch my Babe one time… She actually sent the guy’s pics to her friend and told her she was at his place and that he’s the one taking care of her. I no even act like say I know. I sha de chop her and waste her time, when I’m tired I’ll just show her the chat and break up.”
Gunny wrote: “Lol. I don’t share my personal life with friends, so even if I were the type to cheat which I’m not, it would be impossible for anyone to catch me.”
Kingsley C Angel also weighed in: “One of my colleagues’ wife caught him cheating. Everything she needed to know was covered in his chats with his best friend.”
Love expressed shock at the concept of women cheating: “I thought they said men and women are wired differently… So why would a woman even cheat? Why would you suspect her of cheating since women are not wired to want more than 1 gbola for their lives.”
Lawrence Junior commented: “You have a boyfriend that’s why you tried to control yourself at that point you wanted to tell us how to catch you, now you concluded in saying you don’t have any at the moment, lol. It’s only okay but everyday is for the thief, one day……..🤌”
The video has since gone viral, sparking heated debates among men and women about trust, relationships, and the boundaries of privacy when it comes to checking a partner’s phone.
Watch the video here…
If you want to know if your woman cheats, don't look up for the messages sent to her by male contact on her WhatsApp, rather do this 👇
My 👀 are now opened .. wow ‼️ pic.twitter.com/roP4EngUPw
— AFRICAMUSTBEFREE!!!!!!! (@engrICO2015) September 21, 2025