Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tolani Baj, made a noteworthy revelation on her podcast, Bahd and Boujee, co-hosted with media personality Moet Abebe, asserting that Lagos girls often prefer married men to their single counterparts due to the perceived greater sense of responsibility these married men possess.
In the discussion, Tolani Baj expressed the view that in the Lagos dating scene, once a couple gets married, only the female is considered off the market, while the man remains highly available for other women. According to her, being married as a man is seen as a demonstration of responsibility, financial stability, and the ability to indulge and spoil one's partner.
Despite her observations, Tolani Baj clarified that she is not endorsing or encouraging involvement with married men. She emphasized that her perspective was based on the perceived allure of married men, highlighting that, in her opinion, they often exude more attractiveness than their single counterparts.
Reactions to the video:
@KinqKudos said: “Nobody talk nonsense reach this girl for Nigeria.”
@don_marrtyynz wrote: “Tolani isn’t stopping anytime soon. Who put her on a podcast.”
@TheTifeFab_ said: “Just so you know, the type of married men they are talking about is not the one driving Micra but those driving expensive cars. Make you no go rush marry with ur 5k coz you wan get baddie, na the money dey entice them.”
@sire_sommy wrote: “How is this not endorsing infidelity? Tomorrow, when men openly say these things, women will attack them left and right.”
Watch video below:
“Married men in Lagos are even hotter than single men”
– Tolani Baj a.k.a TBaj pic.twitter.com/yaF3lYH7hA
— 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) November 17, 2023
This revelation by Tolani Baj adds an interesting perspective to the dynamics of relationships in Lagos, prompting varied reactions from social media users.
