Relationship coach, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has responded to 2Face Idibia's statement regarding men being wired to cheat. In the latest episode of the reality show Young, Rich, and Famous, 2Face made the claim, sparking a debate on the topic.
Pastor Kingsley strongly disagrees with 2Face's assertion and considers it a falsehood originating from negative influences. While acknowledging that men may face more sexual temptations than women, the relationship coach emphasizes that it should never serve as an excuse for infidelity or causing harm to a loved one.
In a tweet, Pastor Kingsley shared his perspective, stating that no man is inherently programmed to cheat. He also mentioned that men generally have a higher sex drive due to higher testosterone levels, can engage in purely physical relationships without emotional connections (as evidenced by the prevalence of male-funded prostitution), and are visually stimulated, constantly exposed to temptation in today's society. However, he reiterates that none of these factors justify cheating and emphasizes the importance of self-control.
He tweeted;
“NO MAN is wired to cheat, don’t believe that lie from hell. However there seems to be proof that men are more prone to sexual temptation than women, OF COURSE women are tempted too.
“But clearly the sexual proclivity of men is VERY different from women here are some reasons.
“#1 Men have a higher sex drive than women, men have a higher dose of testosterone which is the sex hormone.
“#2 Men are capable of enjoying sex without any emotional connection, hence why prostitution is mainly men funded.
“#3 Men are visually stimulated , so just being a man in today’s world is an automatic temptation because your view is attacked daily.
“However all this is NEVER an excuse to cheat and hurt someone you claim you love, SELF CONTROL by God’s grace is how to go Prov 25:28 MSG – A person without self-control is like a house with its doors and windows knocked out.”
However all this is NEVER an excuse to cheat and hurt someone you claim you love, SELF CONTROL by God's grace is how to go
Prov 25:28 MSG –A person without self-control is like a house with its doors and windows knocked out.
— kingsley okonkwo (@kingsleypst) May 20, 2023
