A Nigerian lady is fearlessly expressing her desire to embrace single motherhood, rejecting the notion of marriage and the idea of being subservient to any man's instructions.
The viral video has garnered mixed reactions from netizens, showcasing the lady's unwavering conviction as she shares her aspirations for a life filled with independence and financial autonomy.
In the video, the confident young woman boldly declares her intent to become a single mother, challenging societal norms that often pressure women to marry and conform to traditional gender roles.
She firmly expresses her inability to envision herself following the dictates of any man and chooses to embrace her single status, celebrating her financial success and autonomy.
She writes;
"How do I explain to my mum at my age I want to be a single mother. I just can’t obey any man. I gat the money."
The video has sparked diverse reactions, with many women expressing support for her empowered stance, commending her courage to defy social expectations.
However, not everyone agrees with her perspective, as some netizens argue that marriage can bring fulfillment and happiness, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and partnership in relationships.
@Sandypec said; “Me I want them both good man and money♀️but as a woman try get your own money too e get why…”
@vivianezike732 said; “Give her all the money a guy suppose give she no go remember say marriage dey exist.”
@Latioflagos said; “How do I explain to my mom that I don’t want to get married and I don’t want kids.”
@Onye said; “I thought I was d only one wanting to be a single mother I’m 19 but can imagine being a salve for a man all in d name of marriage.”
@Chinonye Nwalie Ndia said; “Please don’t let any one pressure you into marriage jare. I am happily married, and I enjoy obeying my husband but I know marriage is not for everyone.”
@Daisy said; “Haa me too, my sister. D tot of marriage spikes my BP. I wish time would stand still so I don’t cross over 2 d oda syd of 20s wen dey start d pressure.”
@salama bala said; “May God give you a friend and a partner that will make marriage fun and sweet for u.”
@Isioma said; “I’m on this table, like I just want to have money and not think of a man in my life,but if you tell your mama this one she go shout.”
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