A Nigerian lady, identified as @ikpekachiee on Twitter, shared her distressing experience after accepting an invitation to visit a man's house for the first time. Contrary to her expectations of being treated with respect and hospitality, she claims that she was confronted with a disgustingly filthy kitchen. To her shock, she alleges that she was instructed to clean a collection of unwashed plates that had been neglected for over two weeks. Expressing her anguish in a heartfelt social media post, the lady bemoaned the appalling state of the kitchen and the mistreatment she endured. She emphasized her disbelief at the level of negligence and insensitivity displayed by the man, deeming it a living condition that no woman should have to endure. Supporting her claims, she shared photographs of the unkempt kitchen, showcasing a disarray of dirty plates, utensils, and food scraps that had accumulated over an extended period. Despite her clarification that she did not use those plates during her visit, she alleges that she was expected to clean them, which she interpreted as a clear disregard for her comfort and dignity. The incident has sparked outrage on social media, with many users expressing solidarity with the lady and condemning the man's behavior. Various reactions from netizens were shared, highlighting the absurdity of the situation and criticizing the man's lack of consideration and respect.
@hugomah said; “Later he’d say😂 “I was testing you I did it to just test you”. Osheyyyyy testing the microphone🎤 1 2!!!😂😂
@ada_ideato wrote; “Omo you all should let her be! Why would a grown ass man keep his kitchen this way! I’m sure the reason she is ranting is cox he vented out on her for not cleaning it!!! Go get a house help brooo”
@prudent confidence1 wrote; “Even if i be dirty boy inviting woman for the first time, Omo i go over clean everywhere use hypo wash plate”
@funaya said; “But women dey chop shit o imagine visiting a man for the first time and he expects you to clean his house. As in housemaid abi na wetin. Nawa o the audacity”
@icewaterofficial said; “Bcos of say she be ur house girl abi lol some african men just think women are slaves”
@royal_natural_hair wrote; “Chapter 1 says, even if you clean the kitchen; he will still not marry you, please the next Chapter”
@ijobayanyan said; “If u want a girl to clean ur kitchen after cooking make sure she met it clean. No way she can leave it dirty if she meets it clean”
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I’m coming to your house for the first time this year and you’re angry that I did not clean your kitchen that looks like where animals are living. I can’t even post the chats cause I’m so angry. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 https://t.co/UJHYGLVdQU pic.twitter.com/vvIQBSEA2S
— omo pastorr (@IkpeKachiee) June 28, 2023