A Nigerian lady has shared some surprising rules established by her abroad-based boyfriend, which include severing all online connections with male acquaintances. The lady, known as @ashabi_chanter60 on TikTok, recently uploaded a video that showcases a WhatsApp conversation with her Yoruba boyfriend, who is currently living in Germany. The couple initially connected on Instagram.
In the video, captioned “I met a Yoruba man based in Germany on IG, and these are his relationship rules,” the boyfriend detailed his expectations concerning her professional pursuits and the need for financial transparency. He expressed concern about her engaging in multiple side businesses, as indicated by her WhatsApp messages, stating, “Because from your WhatsApp, it seems like you are doing a lot of different kinds of side businesses. I am wary of that because on the one side, I don’t want my woman moving outside a lot because of her possibly interacting with males of any kind.”
He further articulated his desire for oversight of her finances, aligning with traditional Yoruba beliefs about gender roles. He stated, “I want complete visibility over the whole finances of my woman. I believe in the Yoruba culture that our parents teach us, which is that it is the man who is the head of the household and therefore is responsible for the finances of the household. Any money the woman earns from her work she will make visible to her [husband].”
The Germany-based boyfriend also emphasized the importance of open communication, saying, “I prefer to always say immediately if I see something I don’t like. I cannot keep it inside. Do you understand?” This declaration underscores his strict and controlling approach to their relationship.
The video has since gained significant traction online, sparking diverse reactions from social media users regarding the boyfriend’s stringent demands. Many have expressed disbelief and concern over the level of control he seeks in the relationship.
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