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A 35-year-old Nigerian man living in Italy reaches out for help as he endures ongoing domestic abuse from his wife. He reveals that he is subjected to physical violence, forced to do chores, and coerced into unwanted sexual activities. The man met his wife in Malaysia, and she later sponsored his relocation to Italy. However, after their marriage, his wife's behavior drastically changed, and he now lives in constant fear and despair. He shares the heartbreaking story of discovering his wife's involvement in prostitution and expresses his desire to escape the abusive situation with his children. Despite feeling indebted to his wife for helping him immigrate, he longs for a different family life and seeks advice on how to break free from this tormenting existence. The man shares his plea with a social media personality on Twitter, pouring out his emotions and seeking guidance in his difficult situation.
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How I met my wife in Malaysia
"Just like the guy who married a single mother of two in Lekki. I met my wife in Malaysia. Then she was my girlfriend, things were so difficult for me there, she was of great help to me until I had to return to Nigeria.
"She relocated to Italy after some time and there she got pregnant for two different men...said one of the men died and the other refused to marry her. While I was in Nigeria, she helped me run my papers to Italy, and I came over. She handled everything herself. I felt so loved by her."
Genesis of domestic abuse from my wife
"She was all good and loving when I came over too until I sent my people to pay her bride price in Nigeria. Since then, she has turned into a lion. I'm subjected to domestic violence. She beats me up a lot. The last time, I couldn't see with my left eye for 2 weeks just because I asked a simple question concerning where she spent the night. She has connections everywhere. I can't report to the police. I'm forced to wash her pants, I'm forced to have sex with her even when I'm not in the mood, and I must wash her plate for a very long time until she orgasms. I'm tired of this whole life. I love to do it, but gosh, that's not the only essence of my life. She doesn't trust me one bit, always wants to go through my phone, and never wants a lady close to me, especially young ladies."
Finding out about my wife's prostitution businesses
"The day I found out she is into 'olosho' business here, I was devastated. We have a girl and a boy together, making it 2 boys and 2 girls. I work and take care of all of them. But I am still a slave in my own house. Please, I need advice. How do I run away from this place with my kids? She helped me come over, and I feel indebted to her. But I'm dying inside. I'm 35 years old and she is 42. This is not the kind of family I dream
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