A Nigerian lady named Favour has taken to social media to seek advice and share her concerns about her year-long relationship with her boyfriend.
In a heartfelt Facebook post, Favour expressed her distress over her boyfriend’s apparent lack of effort in their relationship, particularly when it comes to gift-giving and financial support.
According to Favour’s post, her boyfriend has never given her gifts or contributed financially throughout the duration of their one-year relationship.
Favour candidly shared that whenever she has asked her boyfriend for assistance or presents, he has consistently claimed to lack the resources to fulfill her requests.
Favour further revealed that despite her willingness to provide him with financial help whenever he asks for it, her own requests are met with skepticism and doubt.
In an attempt to level the playing field, Favour admitted that she has recently begun responding similarly to her boyfriend’s requests for money by claiming she is unable to assist.
However, this tactic has only led to her boyfriend suspecting her intentions and questioning her commitment to the relationship.
One significant incident that Favour highlighted in her post was her recent birthday. Despite downplaying the significance of her boyfriend’s oversight, Favour confessed that his failure to wish her on her special day had left her feeling hurt and overlooked.
In her words;
“Hello, I want to ask a question please. I am dating a guy for a year now, and he has never spent on me or given me a gift or anything. Whenever I ask him for something, he says he does not have it. Then I won't ask him again. But once he asks me for some money, I will give him. However, the next time he asks, I would tell him I don’t have any money, but he would not believe me, thinking I did not want to give him. On the day of my birthday, he did not wish me, but to me, I see it as nothing. Please, I want to ask if this is how a relationship is supposed to be. I need your advice.”
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