A young lady, identified as @Inimisioluwa on Twitter, shared a heart-wrenching experience of betrayal by her supposed best friend. In her response to a thread discussing worst friendship betrayals, she revealed that her best friend secretly recorded a video of her and leaked it to her parents.
The incident took place during the 2018 World Cup when Inimisioluwa was unwell. Her friend visited her to cheer her up and suggested they go swimming together. They both entered the changing room, where her friend asked for a selfie. Unbeknownst to Inimisioluwa, her friend was recording a video while she was partially undressed, combing her hair and dancing to a song by Burna Boy. Her friend later convinced her not to swim due to her health, and they spent the next day together at her friend's house.
However, the aftermath of the incident was devastating. Inimisioluwa's mother received the video from an unknown number and confronted her about it. As a result, she faced physical abuse from her mother and even had her father disown her. Feeling suicidal, she confided in her friend, who cried and cursed the person responsible for sending the video.
Months later, another friend approached Inimisioluwa, seeking forgiveness and revealing that her best friend was behind the video. According to him, her best friend had sent him the video to forward it to Inimisioluwa's mom, assuming her mom would recognize the number. When confronted, the best friend denied the allegations. However, evidence in the form of chat records was presented, leading to her arrest. The best friend claimed that Inimisioluwa had previously taken her boyfriend and attributed her actions to jealousy and frustration over not receiving romantic attention.
Although the best friend was eventually released and her parents pleaded for forgiveness, Inimisioluwa was deeply affected by the betrayal. She lost trust in everyone, including herself, as her best friend had been the only person who knew intimate details of her life. Inimisioluwa decided to leave the area, but the stigma and emotional trauma persisted.
To make matters worse, after the video was sent to her mom, it spread widely on platforms like WhatsApp, even reaching news outlets. Inimisioluwa's mom seized her phone, cutting off her access to the internet. The relentless humiliation led Inimisioluwa to contemplate suicide multiple times. However, her mom intervened, removing anything potentially harmful from their home and seeking professional help.
Inimisioluwa vividly recalls the dark moments when she attempted to end her life but was confronted with the harsh reality of others' suffering. Visiting a hospital and seeing individuals struggling to survive, including a woman who had ingested poison, deeply affected her perspective. Grateful for her mother's support and realizing the value of life, Inimisioluwa renounced her suicidal thoughts and embraced the desire to live, enjoy life, and be loved.
Throughout this traumatic period, Inimisioluwa's best friend remained in her life, offering encouragement and pleading for forgiveness on her behalf, until the truth about the video was exposed by another friend. It was then that Inimisioluwa realized the extent of her misplaced trust in someone she considered a friend—a realization that left her shattered.
How My Best Friend Betrayed Me
“From my best friend 🥲 It’s was 2018 during the World Cup,govern Sanwolu brought the World Cup love to Alimosho then, I was sick on the last match and my bestir came home to cheer me up and ask us to go swimming, I was a bit not fine but I went with her cos we were very close.
When we got to the pool, we both went into the change room and she brought out her new Tecno spark then and ask for a selfie🥲, I was still half naked cos I had a bikini [/b]bra on with no pantries and I was trying to park my hair well before wearing my bikini pant.
Unknown to me she was recording me while I was combing my hair and dancing to this Burna boy song🥲Gba, she later told me not to swim again that day cos of my health and she bought me juice while I watch her swim, the next day I was in her house through out and gusting about life.
Aftermath of Leaked Video to My Parents
Later on my mom called me showing me the video that an unknown number sent the video to her phone🥲🥲 as a Muslim [/b]mother🥲 I was beaten to a pulp that day and I ran out crying to my bestie 😭😭 told her somebody sent a video of me to my mom😭she was crying and cursing the person.
I got suicidal and my father disowned me 😥my mom was the one that helped me pull through and I explained everything to her and told her I don’t know who did the video 😥 she thought I did the video so I could send to my bf or something 😭😭 I always cry and curse the person.
Finding Out About Leaked Video
3month later, one of my bestie friends came to me asking for forgiveness and I ask him what he did to me🥲 he said my bestie did the video and sent it to him to send it to my mom cos my mom has her number saved and will know whr it’s came from, she denied everything.
The guy showed us proof of chat and my mom got her arrested 😥 she told the police that I once collected her Boyfriend😭and why is it that fine boys always ask me out and she didn’t get anyone to ask her out and I collected her Facebook [/b]bf again😭😭😭her parent beg us.
We released her and I have been so fucked up 😥 I don’t trust anyone not even myself cos the girl broke me, she was my only friend and knows every details of my living 😥 I left the area for a year plus but the stigma is still there😥😥.
I didn’t add the part that after they sent it to my mom, they sent it to Abesan news too😥😥 it’s was everywhere on WhatsApp [/b]and she will be the one to call me and tell me she saw it on different groups cos my mom seized my phone then and I didn’t have access to internet😥😥
I Became Suicidal
My dad always call me everyday to curse me😥 say hurtful words😭 I zero my mind and decide to take sniper cos the embarrassment was a lot and my mom cleared the house from anything poisonous and lock me in my room 😭without anything to hurt myself and no phone.
I remember tying 3to 4 scarf together to hang myself but my celling fan was too weak 😭😭 I tried to kill myself multiple times🥲they called different Alfa to come preach to me and my mom drove me to the hospital to see what people are going through😭.
They showed me a woman that was half dead cos she took poison and the poison didn’t kill her and she was begging to be saved😭😭I was taken to morgue to see young girls and boys that died 😭😭 I am so grateful to my mom cos she redeemed me.
I remember drinking nail dissolver, swallowing a black soap 😭😭 maybe it’s will gradually destroy my organs 😥😥 I just wanted to die that time😭😭 omooo Iya mi is my gold and silver 🥲🥲🥲the thought of it now makes me want to live,enjoy and be loved 💪🏾💪🏾.
I was still friends with her when everything played out and she was the one encouraging me to turn deaf ear to everyone, she took me in when my mom beat me to a pulp and she was the one begging my dad and mum to forgive me, it’s was when the guy confessed I knew I trusted a snake.”