A shocking marital drama has taken over Facebook after a well-known Nigerian woman and relationship expert, Adesola Faridah, discovered that her husband had secretly tied the knot with another woman, popular Facebook vendor Eniola Sisialagbo, without her knowledge. The news, which surfaced online over the weekend, has left her devastated and has since gone viral across different platforms, sparking intense debates about betrayal, secrecy, and loyalty in modern marriages.
According to multiple reports, Faridah, who has built a reputation as a relationship coach on Facebook, only found out about the wedding after friends reached out to her with photos and videos circulating online. To her shock, both her husband and his new wife had already blocked her on Facebook, making it impossible for her to see the updates directly.
What made matters worse was the fact that on the very morning of the Nikaah ceremony, Faridah’s husband allegedly spoke to her as though it was just another normal day. At no point did he hint at his marital plans, leaving her blindsided when she later discovered the truth through social media posts shared by others.
“I Don’t Think I Deserved This” – Faridah Breaks Down in Pain
In an emotional outpour shared on her verified Facebook page, Faridah expressed her deep heartbreak and confusion over her husband’s betrayal. She wrote:
“She derived joy in ruining a fellow woman’s happiness, both of them blocked me on social media so that I won’t see the rubbish they were doing online. Husband never told me he is getting married to her, it was on social media I got to know. Even on their Nikaah, husband call me in the morning he didn’t tell me he is getting married on that day, so I don’t understand this your post oooo. If a man that we have been together for about 5 years can’t treat me like this, he doesn’t worth to be my husband, Sisi Alagbo should have him.”
In a follow-up post, the heartbroken first wife admitted that the betrayal was too heavy to process but that she would leave the matter in God’s hands. She wrote:
“Anyways I am not surprised, that’s human being for you. I don’t have anyone to fight for me but I have God. Did I even know her, did her husband introduce her to me? I got to know on social media that my husband and Sisi Alagbo were getting married. I pray I heal from this pain, the pain is just too much to bear, I don’t think I deserved this from him. ALMIGHTY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON MY SOUL.”
Old Advice Comes Back to Haunt Her
Adesola Faridah is not just any woman; she is widely recognized for her bold and sometimes controversial relationship advice on Facebook. In 2022, she went viral for a long post titled “12 Rules to Keep Your Husband Forever” which many have now dug up in light of her current predicament. The resurfaced advice included strict marital guidelines such as:
Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him. Sex is very important to men.Never raise your voice for any reason against your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect.
Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back on you.
Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them.
Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for you will diminish.
Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid, do your duties.
Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.
Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
Never challenge your husband in front of the children. Wise women don’t do that.
The resurfacing of this old post has triggered a mix of sympathy and criticism online. While some feel pity for her, many others have pointed out the irony of how someone who dished out “rules” for marriage stability is now facing betrayal in the most painful form.
Mixed Reactions Online
The news has fueled massive reactions on Facebook and other platforms, with thousands of comments pouring in. Some users sympathized with her pain and prayed for healing, while others argued that her situation shows that no formula or rules can guarantee loyalty in marriage. A section of critics also accused her of being too rigid in her past advice, suggesting that her posts may have been unrealistic and disconnected from real marital challenges.
As the heartbreaking story continues to trend, many are waiting to see how Adesola Faridah navigates this storm and whether she will remain on Facebook as a relationship coach after this highly publicized betrayal.