A married woman recently shared insightful relationship advice on her TikTok page, @ms_raphys, addressing both genders.
In the video, she candidly acknowledges that her perspective may not align with popular opinions among women. She strongly criticizes women who bill men, deeming it irresponsible and indicative of a lack of proper upbringing.
The woman argues that a responsible woman with good home training wouldn't need to ask a man she's not married to for money if her family is looking out for her. She emphasizes that a relationship is not a financial venture, asserting that women have no inherent right to be paid for being in a relationship.
Furthermore, the married woman condemns those who request monthly allowances from their boyfriends, emphasizing the importance of spontaneous and heartfelt gestures over financial expectations.
Responses to the video varied. @Moh expressed a reluctance to provide money, stating that once asked, he feels the relationship is not worth his time. @✨STAR✨ questioned the dynamics, highlighting that while it's acceptable to visit a man's house, billing him may be crossing a line. @Mama K echoed the sentiment of giving from the heart, appreciating when a man voluntarily supports his partner without being prompted.
@The Enchiridion! humorously remarked that relationships have transformed into job opportunities, while @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ suggested that women billing men might misunderstand it as a sign of understanding in a relationship.
Watch the video here:
@ms_raphysThis is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp
♬ original sound – Rafiah
