A male nurse has shared valuable advice for married men, stating that the way a man treats his wife when he's healthy will determine how she will care for him when he falls ill. Drawing from his experience in hospital wards, the nurse urges men to treat their wives with kindness and respect during their healthy days to ensure they receive similar treatment during times of sickness.
The nurse, known as @Anasarabdul070, emphasizes that the only person who will genuinely stand by a man during his challenging moments in the hospital is his wife. While other family members may come and go, it is the wife who will remain faithfully by his side. He explains that the level of effort the wife puts into nursing her husband back to health ultimately depends on how well he treated her when he was healthy.
The nurse urges men to be intentional in their treatment of their wives, as it is their wives who will truly support and care for them in times of sickness. He shares personal observations, stating, "I've seen this pattern play out daily. You see those wives who are being treated well doing everything they can to make their husbands get well. They disturb the health care practitioners, they cry, they rake, they go above and beyond to make their husbands get better. Well, the reverse is the case with the abused wife. Her laissez-faire attitude will be top-notch. You will sleep and wake up in your poo. You'll starve. She's just staying there for staying's sake."
The tweep urged men to be more intentional about their treatment of their wives as the only person who can truly stick with them are their women.
An excerpt from his post reads:
“Dear Men!!!
After almost 2 years of working as a nurse in a male ward, I can tell you 2 things I’ve observed.
1, As a married man, the only person who’s going to be by your bedside when you are sick is your wife. I repeat, your wife.
On rare occasions, your kids will be there. For a while though. Only your wife can leave whatever she’s doing to be with you.
Your siblings may come and go, your friends may visit, but she is the only one who will wholeheartedly stay with you throughout youyour ordeal.
2, The way you treated your wife when you were healthy always shows in the way she will treat you when you are sick.
I’ve seen this pattern play out daily. You see those wives who are being treated well doing everything they can to make their husbands get well.
They disturb the health care practitioners, they cry, they rake, they go above and beyond to make their husbands get better.
Well, the reverse is the case with the abused wife. Her laissez faire attitude will be topnotch. You will sleep and wake up in your poo. You’ll starve.
She’s just staying there for staying sake. Some will leave you in the hospital for like 2 or 3 days before returning from wherever they went to unwind.
You will report to your people, they’ll yell on the phone and still nothing will happen…”
Dear Men!!!
After almost 2 years of working as a nurse in a male ward, I can tell you 2 things I've observed.
1, As a married man, the only person who's going to be by your bedside when you are sick is your wife. I repeat, your wife.
— Abdullah A Abdullah (@Ansarabdul070) July 13, 2023