Nigerian actress Blessing Obasi has openly shared her perspective on the decision to marry later in life, shedding light on the feelings of alienation she experienced before embracing matrimony. In a heartfelt Instagram post dated Tuesday, February 6, Blessing eloquently delved into her personal journey, prompted by a discussion show addressing the challenges and pressures faced by single women.
The mother of one expressed that her choice to embrace marriage at a later stage in life wasn't merely a decision but rather a profound process characterized by resilience, self-discovery, and a defiance of societal expectations.
In her own words, Blessing Obasi conveyed, "You know, I had to jump on this conversation because, after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.
“Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.
“The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.
“So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it,”
