Reality TV star and Nigerian entrepreneur, Leo DaSilva, recently stirred up significant online discussion by openly criticizing the common practice among believers of calling their pastors titles such as “Daddy,” “spiritual father,” and similar labels. His comments sparked a variety of reactions from social media users, with some supporting his perspective and others firmly opposing it.
In a post on X, Leo voiced his concern over what he sees as potentially problematic titles, calling it a “red flag.” He questioned the need for such personal expressions when addressing religious leaders, expressing that this practice might suggest an over-dependence on religious figures rather than fostering a direct connection with God.
“My Daddy, ‘My Spiritual Daddy,’ ‘my father in the Lord’ to describe your pastor is a red flag,” Leo wrote, questioning why believers should use terms that imply such a deep, personal relationship with pastors.
In a follow-up post, Leo further explained his own journey of faith, sharing that he attended theology school for two years. His goal, however, was not to become a pastor but to deepen his own understanding of scripture and religious teachings. According to Leo, genuine love for God should lead people to seek knowledge about their faith independently, rather than solely depending on others to guide their beliefs.
“I went to theology school for 2 years, not because I want to become a pastor, but to understand the word of God even more,” he explained. “If you claim to love God, you will try to learn about God yourself. It’s like saying you love someone you don’t even know. Don’t be a sheep to everything,” he added, emphasizing the importance of personal exploration in one’s spiritual journey.
Leo’s remarks have sparked mixed reactions online, with some fans applauding his stance on the need for independent faith exploration. Supporters believe his views encourage a more personal relationship with God, without excessive reliance on religious figures. However, others argue that addressing pastors with affectionate titles is a way of showing respect and reverence.
Reactions as Leo DaSilva blasts those calling pastor ‘Daddy’
Ubonge1105 opined: “Once you’re too religious, we will definitely have a problem. I’m not telling you disrespect your pastor. But daddy bawo nah. I remember when Lesekese came to our hood newly, as omo adugbon. We started going there, we was told to address him as daddy. I said my daddy is at home. 😳.”
jesse_siri said: “Paul always referred to Timothy as his begotten in the Lord (son in the Lord). Paul was Timothy’s spiritual daddy.”
Ivy Victor reacted: “African moms are used to this. Nna mhen una no get papa? Are y’all orphans?”
Soft Miracle Diva noted: “But you can call your traditional ruler, His Royal Highness, but when I call Papa Jerry Eze my father, it is a problem. Stop it, Leo.”
Richard Adubi penned: “Give honor to whom honor is due.”
The conversation surrounding Leo’s statements highlights the diversity of opinions within faith communities, illustrating how personal views on expressions of reverence for religious leaders can vary widely.