Businessman, self-styled royal, and social media personality Don Sylvester Nweke has once again sparked intense discussion online after making a candid appearance on the popular Honest Bunch Podcast, where he laid down what he described as his hard-earned principles for men in marriage. Known for his forthright opinions and controversial takes, Don Nweke’s latest remarks have once again divided listeners and social media users alike.
During the podcast, Don Nweke asserted that a man’s troubles in marriage begin the moment he “opens business” for his wife or girlfriend, claiming that empowering a woman inevitably leads to marital problems. He shared personal anecdotes from his own experiences, emphasizing that material provision and financial empowerment can often be the source of conflict rather than harmony in relationships.
“Your problem starts as a man the day you open business for your wife or girlfriend. The day you empower her, your problem starts,” Don Nweke stated, recounting his own past marriage struggles. He elaborated, “I have an ex-wife, I bought her a car, took her abroad, and even opened a mini supermarket for her. Despite all this, our relationship eventually faltered.”
Polygamy as a peace strategy, he says
Expanding on his views, Don Nweke advocated for polygamy as a solution to marital strife, arguing that marrying multiple wives can create balance and reduce conflict. He shared an anecdote about a couple who had a long marriage of fifty years but experienced trouble only in their later years, revealing that the last child was the only biological child causing a rift between the couple. According to him, this demonstrates that even long-standing relationships can become complicated if not managed correctly.
“I have seen a husband and wife that stayed 50 years in marriage, and on their 50th year, they started having a problem which made him do a DNA test, only to find out that only their last daughter, who caused their fight, was his only biological child,” he said. “Fifty years of a Christian woman staying at home, not going out—you can vouch for that. As an African man, I believe marrying multiple wives brings peace because many wives give peace.”
Heated exchange with Daddy Freeze
The remarks did not go unchallenged. Popular radio host Daddy Freeze countered Don Nweke, arguing that polygamy does not guarantee marital harmony. “My father married two wives, there was no peace,” Freeze interjected, sparking a spirited debate on the effectiveness of polygamy as a strategy for maintaining marital tranquility.
Unfazed, Don Nweke responded with characteristic boldness, stating, “He should have married more. Like I am, I have a wife in London, America, Kenya, and many are chasing me online.” His unapologetic stance reflected his belief that polygamy, when practiced correctly, can resolve domestic tensions.
Sharp counsel on marriage formalities
Don Nweke also delivered provocative advice about marriage formalities, insisting that men should avoid court marriages and emphasizing the importance of women taking their husband’s last name as part of the union. “Don’t do court marriage, don’t even go near the church, and if you don’t answer my name, you are not my wife; you belong to your father’s house. Let that father marry you!” he stated, further polarizing opinions among listeners and viewers online.
Public reactions
His statements immediately drew mixed reactions from social media users. Some criticized his advice as outdated and subjective, while others argued that it resonates with certain traditional values and personal experiences. BiggestPheel commented, “Me being here at the level I am today is because my Dad empowered my Mom with a business of her own. I would say I benefited more from my mother’s income than that of my father’s. I don’t know what this one is talking about.”
paulpin007 added, “With all due respect sir, tell this to your children alone and not the general public. You all just make this generation weaker with your summations that are extremely subjective.”
earlability opined, “Only a weak man with low self-esteem is scared of a woman’s success!! I empower you, you turn out to be a fool and start misbehaving, I divorce or separate from you and go enjoy my life elsewhere! Simple.”
AlabiIdris21151 remarked, “No. Actually, the problem starts the day you think you need a woman. You cannot have a woman and not have a challenge considering the financial orientation of most Nigerian ladies.”
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"Your problem as a man starts the day you open a business for your wife or girlfriend."
– HRM Don Sylvester Nweke pic.twitter.com/D3S1CWfo5E
— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) September 20, 2025