Controversial podcaster, Toke Makinwa, known for her candid revelations, recently delved into the evolution of her views on infidelity in relationships, shedding light on why cheating is no longer an absolute deal breaker for her, a shift from her earlier stance. In a podcast episode released on Thursday, Makinwa, who previously accused her ex-husband, Maje Ayida, of being a serial cheat, openly shared her perspective on the subject.
Makinwa, reflecting on her experiences and maturity, expressed a nuanced understanding of infidelity, stating that women may find it easier to cheat, and the primary deterrent for some is self-restraint.
In her own words, she conveyed, “I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me. I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave, I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.”
Makinwa continued to elaborate on her evolving perspective, saying, “If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheats, I’m putting him back in the street.”
She concluded with a mature acknowledgment of the complexity of relationships, stating, “As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat; it’s self-restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”