Nigerian pastor Deborah Emmanuel Omale has issued a strong warning to women, advising them to ensure that their bride price is paid before moving in with any man. The clergywoman stated that women who live with men without a formal bride price are essentially relegating themselves to the role of “house helps.”
She went on to explain that men who are not committed enough to pay the bride price are unlikely to take the relationship seriously in the long term. According to her, such men may eventually leave for another woman once the time comes to formalize the relationship.
In her address, Pastor Deborah also urged women who find themselves in this situation to take corrective measures before it becomes too late. The clergywoman’s advice has sparked a wave of reactions online, with many women weighing in and sharing their perspectives, ranging from agreement to playful humor.
Netizens Reactions…
OZIOMA said: “Chioma was living with Davido born 3 children.”
ABUJA-NICKY’S APPAREL said: “For man way Dey feed me for this economy make una Dey talk truth abeg.”
linda said: “mummy u no quick talk oooo I just cook banga soup n Starch now.”
irenelin67 added: “Mummy you for talk this thing on time nah i done already dey move my things small small.”
ebubenwa13 said: “me like this am not parking anything.”
Alum Chimdindu Princess said: “Even without being told, why stay with a man that is not your husband.”
Evelyn said: “Under no circumstances should anyone tell you what to do.”
William elenwo said: “my plan but I never still see woman.”
Rora.ng said: “I had a child for him at 20, moved in with him at 26, not up to a year he proposed and bride price paid. I’m 27 now…what works for you might not work for any one! It’s like as I moved in, it hastened it.”
Ice creamy asked: “Pls what of the person dat goes from her house to wash clothes n cook.”
LaDy LiZzle said: “She don secure her own husband oo de advice yeye davido no marry chioma after 3 kids ?.”
Ariksfresh said: “That’s true ooo, that’s the biggest mistake I made now na like beg I dey beg am make we go registry.”
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